Community rules
Real people. Shared interests. Respectful meetings.
Swipe cards and profiles
Welcome here
Use your display name, an authentic profile photo and genuine interests. Share the activities you enjoy and describe yourself respectfully.
Not allowed
Do not impersonate someone, upload another person's photo without permission, publish email addresses or phone numbers, or share private addresses. No nudity, sexual solicitation, hateful content, threats, scams or misleading profiles.
Chat and waves
Welcome here
Chat after a mutual wave. Ask about shared interests and agree on a public meeting place and time. Ask before sharing photos or personal information.
Not allowed
Do not pressure anyone to reply, meet, share contact details or send money. No harassment, unsolicited sexual content, spam, threats or exposing another person's private information. A mutual wave is not consent to anything else. Respect a declined invitation or removed connection; never bypass a block.
Community events
Welcome here
Post genuine social activities with an accurate title, future date and time, public location, group size and clear conditions. State any venue costs or requirements honestly, and cancel plans that will not take place.
Not allowed
Do not post fake events, private-home addresses, illegal or dangerous activities, discriminatory conditions, spam or deceptive promotions. Do not publish an attendee's contact details or photos without permission. Browsing an event does not mean joining it; attendance must be voluntary.
Safety and reporting
Welcome here
You In? is for adults aged 18 and over. Meet in busy public places, keep control of your transport and tell someone you trust your plans. Use the person's menu to block or report concerning behaviour; include relevant details for the team.
Not allowed
Do not abuse reporting or retaliate against someone who reports you. Serious or repeated violations may result in content removal or account restrictions after review. Reports are not an emergency service: leave an unsafe situation and contact local emergency services if needed. A verification badge does not guarantee someone's safety.